29 Sep 2010 - 08:48:51 am
Pregnant wife, a man betrayed
Many surveys show that men are susceptible to the wife is pregnant (pregnancy food) occurs when the affair. Pregnancy is a risk of marriage, when you're in the birth of life, happiness, he might be some subtle changes are taking place. Six reasons for the sake of the betrayal of the men, are, his wife pregnant, it means that her husband had an affair of it?
Therefore, in many experts, the pregnancy is a risk of marriage, so when you're in the happiness of life, when pregnant, he may some subtle changes taking place.
1. His wife and children struggle
Look at the performance of men in a child: they will get used to self-centered, family members want him they like, they all want their families to meet their own requirements, in short, the men from the first day of birth, than girls with more possessive.
So an adult, seemingly powerful men, but in family life, he sometimes will still grow up like a child. Childhood that he would enjoy the honor and privilege, I hope to extend to family life. Such as through a "food to mouth, clothing to hand" of life. In fact, marriage in the first period of time, all he could find it, most of the wife because of marital love and passion for life, take good care of her husband.
However, when his wife was pregnant, it was deprived of all privileges. Women now account for a small life all the physical and mental, because a strong maternal instinct, women to focus on the baby will be born (baby food) the body, so it may ignore her husband.
Prenatal day watching his wife listening to music, for baby diapers, men think? On the one hand, they do enjoy about this father's joy, but on the other hand, they will not without jealousy and loss, looking at his wife's performance. He is both jealous of the happiness of the mother you have to do - because he could not experience the happiness, while lost in their own status in the eyes of his wife's decline. That has not been born "third party" There is so much power, these individuals were swept away by his love, and really let him be.
2. He would Anxiety
His wife was pregnant, so you tend to listen to the advice of the experts, consciously suspend or reduce the number of sexual life. If not for security reasons, you will be in this period, the natural desire for sex less because you heart and soul is filled with the joy of motherhood, your attention is that the future of small whole life involved away.
However, men are not the same. Scientific tests showed that men once every 6 minutes will produce illusions. If you have a very long period of time, you do not have sex, he was untouchable in sight every day looking at you, mind?
At this point, if just have a crush on him ogle Ruhuasiyu or gestures, or a few good buddies to invite him to the love affair places children get some fresh air, then he "derailed for sex" will greatly increase the possibility of . Despite the incident, he will regret forever, will hate his actions, after all, when you're in dire straits for a mother (mother of food), he was happy in the outside air flow, however, sometimes a man's desire to dominate the rational - this is most of the affair the most direct motivation.
3. He will get scared
32-year-old Jessie, said: "During that time, I tasted the joy of a father soon, but I do not know why, so many nights in insomnia. I think once I do a father, how to take responsibility for his father. I To the child's upbringing, he should be on what kind of school, how to arrange the material, it all made me feel great pressure. "
No wonder the men unfounded, in the present turbulent times, work, emotional and other presents a highly unstable state, the men will think: if I lose my job, I can not feed my child? The complexity of social life, how do I protect the children grow up safe and sound smooth?
From ancient times, men were assigned to support their families, protect the wife's responsibility, so the men in the fierce competitive environment in the foster stronger sense of crisis, they know, unless your strong enough, or, in the law of the jungle society survival is not an easy task.
4. He will appear during pregnancy syndrome
Because of pregnancy, your body changes, mood became nervous. Any point in the small things are likely to be your emotional turmoil. You will put some anxiety, irritability, mood vent to him, this time, he could only endure in silence, because the baby was not his, not to mention he is a man - only natural to think of our society.
But in those days, he was not like you can be wholeheartedly mothers stay at home. His hard work during the day to support the family, to see the boss's face, back home to get rid of before or even do household chores less habits, you should be careful and considerate to the important task of taking care of the family at this time, if he just does not is the excess energy person will feel physically and mentally exhausted.
So, do fathers (father of food), he also may become depressed mood, which is perhaps derived from his daily life stress.
5. His interpersonal reduced
Men are social animals, so after work, even if there is no need for entertainment, even in the office playing the game, they would rather give a busy look. A busy man would be regarded as a sign of no business, so he always has some good friends, support from his social life outside the family, and women are encouraged to go home, born of different mothers should be at home, social rarely encourage a man to fully energy into family life, men accustomed to free, unfettered life, even after marriage, their hearts are hard to wholeheartedly on the family.
Responsibility is necessary, but he will still feel very uncomfortable, at least, he will miss those carefree days.
6. He was preaching offensive
When you're pregnant, all kinds of care for the natural one after another, especially your mother. In her mind, you are still not grown up little girl. Now you have to do my mother, she understood that one of the difficult nature, her son worried about careless not careful enough, so most of the families at this time is: do the mother's initiative to come to this point, willing to be from the obligation to nanny.
But the nanny in the man seems not so good serve of. He would listen respectfully on the surface, and my heart is very uncomfortable. Because a lot of self-righteous men, men are taught from childhood with anything to make your own decision, even in family life, he should always be a backbone, he smart, tough, calm, capable - this is a man has been proud of the social assessment, However, because his wife motherhood, the family suddenly came a "overlord" refers to three of his four, if you just happens to form a united front and to suppress his mother, he naturally felt very uncomfortable. Moreover, the privacy of married life is broken, he would Huang Huangran loss.
Many surveys show that men are susceptible to the wife is pregnant (pregnancy food) occurs when the affair. Pregnancy is a risk of marriage, when you're in the birth of life, happiness, he might be some subtle changes are taking place. Six reasons for the sake of the betrayal of the men, are, his wife pregnant, it means that her husband had an affair of it?
Therefore, in many experts, the pregnancy is a risk of marriage, so when you're in the happiness of life, when pregnant, he may some subtle changes taking place.
1. His wife and children struggle
Look at the performance of men in a child: they will get used to self-centered, family members want him they like, they all want their families to meet their own requirements, in short, the men from the first day of birth, than girls with more possessive.
So an adult, seemingly powerful men, but in family life, he sometimes will still grow up like a child. Childhood that he would enjoy the honor and privilege, I hope to extend to family life. Such as through a "food to mouth, clothing to hand" of life. In fact, marriage in the first period of time, all he could find it, most of the wife because of marital love and passion for life, take good care of her husband.
However, when his wife was pregnant, it was deprived of all privileges. Women now account for a small life all the physical and mental, because a strong maternal instinct, women to focus on the baby will be born (baby food) the body, so it may ignore her husband.
Prenatal day watching his wife listening to music, for baby diapers, men think? On the one hand, they do enjoy about this father's joy, but on the other hand, they will not without jealousy and loss, looking at his wife's performance. He is both jealous of the happiness of the mother you have to do - because he could not experience the happiness, while lost in their own status in the eyes of his wife's decline. That has not been born "third party" There is so much power, these individuals were swept away by his love, and really let him be.
2. He would Anxiety
His wife was pregnant, so you tend to listen to the advice of the experts, consciously suspend or reduce the number of sexual life. If not for security reasons, you will be in this period, the natural desire for sex less because you heart and soul is filled with the joy of motherhood, your attention is that the future of small whole life involved away.
However, men are not the same. Scientific tests showed that men once every 6 minutes will produce illusions. If you have a very long period of time, you do not have sex, he was untouchable in sight every day looking at you, mind?
At this point, if just have a crush on him ogle Ruhuasiyu or gestures, or a few good buddies to invite him to the love affair places children get some fresh air, then he "derailed for sex" will greatly increase the possibility of . Despite the incident, he will regret forever, will hate his actions, after all, when you're in dire straits for a mother (mother of food), he was happy in the outside air flow, however, sometimes a man's desire to dominate the rational - this is most of the affair the most direct motivation.
3. He will get scared
32-year-old Jessie, said: "During that time, I tasted the joy of a father soon, but I do not know why, so many nights in insomnia. I think once I do a father, how to take responsibility for his father. I To the child's upbringing, he should be on what kind of school, how to arrange the material, it all made me feel great pressure. "
No wonder the men unfounded, in the present turbulent times, work, emotional and other presents a highly unstable state, the men will think: if I lose my job, I can not feed my child? The complexity of social life, how do I protect the children grow up safe and sound smooth?
From ancient times, men were assigned to support their families, protect the wife's responsibility, so the men in the fierce competitive environment in the foster stronger sense of crisis, they know, unless your strong enough, or, in the law of the jungle society survival is not an easy task.
4. He will appear during pregnancy syndrome
Because of pregnancy, your body changes, mood became nervous. Any point in the small things are likely to be your emotional turmoil. You will put some anxiety, irritability, mood vent to him, this time, he could only endure in silence, because the baby was not his, not to mention he is a man - only natural to think of our society.
But in those days, he was not like you can be wholeheartedly mothers stay at home. His hard work during the day to support the family, to see the boss's face, back home to get rid of before or even do household chores less habits, you should be careful and considerate to the important task of taking care of the family at this time, if he just does not is the excess energy person will feel physically and mentally exhausted.
So, do fathers (father of food), he also may become depressed mood, which is perhaps derived from his daily life stress.
5. His interpersonal reduced
Men are social animals, so after work, even if there is no need for entertainment, even in the office playing the game, they would rather give a busy look. A busy man would be regarded as a sign of no business, so he always has some good friends, support from his social life outside the family, and women are encouraged to go home, born of different mothers should be at home, social rarely encourage a man to fully energy into family life, men accustomed to free, unfettered life, even after marriage, their hearts are hard to wholeheartedly on the family.
Responsibility is necessary, but he will still feel very uncomfortable, at least, he will miss those carefree days.
6. He was preaching offensive
When you're pregnant, all kinds of care for the natural one after another, especially your mother. In her mind, you are still not grown up little girl. Now you have to do my mother, she understood that one of the difficult nature, her son worried about careless not careful enough, so most of the families at this time is: do the mother's initiative to come to this point, willing to be from the obligation to nanny.
But the nanny in the man seems not so good serve of. He would listen respectfully on the surface, and my heart is very uncomfortable. Because a lot of self-righteous men, men are taught from childhood with anything to make your own decision, even in family life, he should always be a backbone, he smart, tough, calm, capable - this is a man has been proud of the social assessment, However, because his wife motherhood, the family suddenly came a "overlord" refers to three of his four, if you just happens to form a united front and to suppress his mother, he naturally felt very uncomfortable. Moreover, the privacy of married life is broken, he would Huang Huangran loss.
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